19 Nov Stream Rough play (male) by luckytry from desktop or your mobile device. 1 Mar Men know how to fix it—even when what's busted is a buddy's broken heart. What does it mean to 'be a man'? And what does that have to do with violence against women? These are two key questions that we need to ask, but it can be difficult to know where to start. We know that while most men are not violent, the majority of violent acts (against women and other men) are committed by men. Men's.